A Kenyan lady and mother of two identified as Flo Njoki and her husband Marnix Huis recently divorced, only for her to find out that he is having an affair with her best friend, Sydney Wamaitha.
Flo recalled how her husband suddenly became cold towards her, always finding faults with everything she did. According to her, he stopped having sex with her and even accused her of having a mental disorder.
Here’s what she wrote:
So you know me barely one year married..and your eyes are set on the father of my children..i dine with you,cook in my house with you..borrow movies…come and watch with you and my daughter at your house….you are a good friend.you are humble,God fearing..sweet..i go to the same university with you..we do exams in the same room..you are employed by my brother and i even give you a piece of land for free to maybe do a side hassle.. your eyes are fixed on the price…my husband..father of my kids…i sit next to you in an office for a few years..next to you.you help me fix my computer when faulty . .you are the kindest..i the most naive….i see a good good girlfriend…and in my naivety I dont suspect…little do I know that behind my back you are plotting …but something is not right in my marriage..my husband is fault finding….i can’t please him..tamo him I am unappreciative because I want a good Sofa….i want a nice bed for my kids…then he says I have a mental disorder..i have anger problem..i try to be nice…he pushes me off…sleeping at the edge of the bed…i am wondering what’s wrong with me…i want to try so bad to make the marriage work…i do anything….but I dont know of the outside forces…i think he’s sweet coming to our office to see me…but his eyes are set on a more beautiful person…i can’t get through to him
Now my kids know you fix their dad’s WiFi.. .little do they know…how i have blamed others because my fingers could not understand the distance between us..
But at the end the truth comes out…i can’t believe it’s you…all along….
All along..from the very beginning ..enjoying the Motorbike rides…like us in the beginning…
Now barely divorced and you are the kids entertainer and their good friend…never have I met someone who is so dangerously beautiful..conniving bithcy . ..
Maybe he’s the love of your life…but you have taken us through hell..the tears we have cried…may they fall on you…the scheming scheming…is very well.ochestrated..i admire your coolness in all this….
Maybe you believe you will be happy…be carefill one day you don’t cry like I have . .hurt like I have….
I wish you the best as my kids call you step mom..
I wish you happiness for the next 40 years like I was led to believe…all our promises now passed to you…
I pity you as I have pitied my kids when they asked me so many questions .
I have never begged someone who I never cheated on me even going for therapies because I was led to believe I was having a mental disorder…you saw my pain…i have narrated to you my heartache Sydney Wamaitha….
I wish you happiness with Marnix Huis Int Veld.. but know you and Marnix Huis Int veld..have brought tears and heartache to me Aisha and Justin
Marnix such a cheat..lier..and the way I put so much trust in you…..
A founder and director of macheo children’s home in thika.shame.
Helping others as you make your own hurt…